I am all out of conclusions. That may be an obvious conclusion to draw if you’ve read my previous two blog posts for the A to Z Challenge. Generally, I write to figure out what I am thinking, but lately, I just cannot seem to wind my way to a conclusion.
I know it is a virtue of age and maturity, as well as a sign of the times in which we live, but answers of any kind seem increasingly elusive. Facts, even when verified, are rejected as untrue and flat out lies get promoted as capital T Truth. We increasingly live in an era of uncertainty, politically, economically, socially. And that uncertainty has crept in to my writing. As I try to find and then follow that thread that almost always appeared, I now question myself. My inner critic jabbers away at me as I type, eroding my confidence in what I used to think of as a surefire way to figure shit out.
One good friend reminds me on the regular that difficult or challenging experiences are simply metaphors. Like when I had plantar fasciitis, she asked me where in my life was I not standing on my own two feet. So, I decided to take that approach here.
Where else in my life am I having difficulty coming to conclusions? Ooooh. Well. I recently (in August) launched myself into a new life, selling my house, buying an RV and hitting the road. It’s been a learning process. I’m not sure yet how it is going to work for me. I am having difficulty settling into #vanlife, and find myself casting about for alternatives: maybe I could live in a condo here, or perhaps I should buy a lot and build a pole barn and RV pad, or I might just need a bigger RV, and for sure I should get an RV with 4WD.
Clearly, I am trying to get some clarity. I’m tossing out all manner of ideas, trying them on, asking friends and relatives what they think. Calling realtors, getting pre-approval, just in case. Just in case. I want to be prepared. But, I haven’t yet reached any conclusion or concensus—
and there’s the metaphor:
My life and my writing, conclusion-less for now.
Life imitates art.
I have Chapters left to write.
I have Worlds left to explore.
4 thoughts on “C is for Conclusions”
A succinct and satisfying statement of your current confusions,,, which you, with your smart brain, will resolve..
Thanks Linda! I appreciate your confidence in my abilities.
Being faced with a vast array of options has always had the effect of making me struggle to choose. I’ve spent too much of my life as re-actor than pro-actor. I’m interested to see where your journey takes you and what you – ultimately – decide is for you.
Debs visiting this year from
Making Yourself Relationship Ready
Thanks for reading and for responding! As I continue to write, I’m improving at drawing my essays to conclusions, so I am hopeful that clarity in my writing will be followed by clarity in my life choices.