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1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/cho_ku_rei1112.png</image:loc><image:title>cho_ku_rei1112</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/t.jpg</image:loc><image:title>T</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-06T20:45:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/30/s-is-for-spirituality-and-also-short/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/s.jpg</image:loc><image:title>S</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-07T23:15:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/27/r-is-for-rain-and-resistance/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/r.jpg</image:loc><image:title>R</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/photo.png</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T19:01:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/27/q-is-for-questions-or-midlife-ramblings/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/pam_england-shakespeare.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>pam_england shakespeare</image:title><image:caption>Me, in front of Shakespeare's birthplace, ca 1987</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/screen-bean-question-guy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>screen bean question guy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/q.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Q</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T18:38:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/23/p-is-for-playlist/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/p.jpg</image:loc><image:title>P</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T16:50:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/22/o-is-for-owies/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/traction.jpg</image:loc><image:title>traction</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>O</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T16:45:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/20/n-is-for-names-or-what-am-i/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/blog-counselor-inundated.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BLOG-counselor-inundated</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/keep-calm-the-therapist-is-here-9.png</image:loc><image:title>keep-calm-the-therapist-is-here-9</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>N</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-28T16:22:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/20/m-is-for-marooned-in-the-middle/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/m.jpg</image:loc><image:title>M</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-27T05:02:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/16/l-is-for-letting-go/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/l.jpg</image:loc><image:title>L</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-30T17:24:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/14/k-is-such-a-difficult-letter-kilometer-knowledge-kundalini/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/tattoo.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>tattoo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/k.jpg</image:loc><image:title>K</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-19T00:25:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/13/j-is-for-just-do-it/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/nike-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>nike 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/nike-app-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>nike app 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/2012-nike-app.png</image:loc><image:title>2012 nike app</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/nike-app-2015.png</image:loc><image:title>nike app 2015</image:title><image:caption>My runs, 2015</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/j.jpg</image:loc><image:title>J</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-16T04:20:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/13/i-is-for-inspiration/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/i.jpg</image:loc><image:title>I</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-13T20:45:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/12/h-is-for-hills-and-f-should-have-been-for-falling/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ft-ebey-1.png</image:loc><image:title>ft ebey 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ft-ebey-2.png</image:loc><image:title>ft ebey 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ft-ebey-3.png</image:loc><image:title>ft ebey 3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/h.jpg</image:loc><image:title>H</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-13T20:42:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/09/g-is-for-gratitude-a-day-late/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/g.jpg</image:loc><image:title>G</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-09T23:16:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/07/f-is-for-fast-feet/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/tulip-run-medal.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tulip run medal</image:title><image:caption>Third in my age group at the Tulip Run on Saturday. Fast fleet feet.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/f.jpg</image:loc><image:title>F</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-08T22:10:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/07/e-is-for-eating-not-as-i-had-hoped-expectations-and-eeyore/</loc><lastmod>2015-04-07T04:32:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/06/e-is-for-expectations-and-eeyore/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/e.jpg</image:loc><image:title>E</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-06T20:19:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/04/d-is-for-data/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/karen-pam-me-tulip-15.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Karen Pam Me Tulip 15</image:title><image:caption>Karen, Moi, April at today's Tulip Run. Photo by April Eaton</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/d.jpg</image:loc><image:title>D</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-07T21:39:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/03/c-is-for-compassion/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/c.jpg</image:loc><image:title>C</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-04T22:36:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/02/b-is-for-brooks-or-how-is-it-i-have-so-many-pairs-of-running-shoes/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/glycerin_2.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Glycerin_2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ghost-gtx.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Ghost GTX</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/glycerin.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>glycerin</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/cascadias.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cascadias</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-03T22:22:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/04/01/a-is-for-accountability-and-also-april-and-anxiety/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/a1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>A[1]</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/band-aid-run1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>band aid run</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/band-aid-run.jpg</image:loc><image:title>band aid run</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/river-to-rails-run.jpg</image:loc><image:title>river to rails run</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-02T01:53:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2015/03/29/im-baaack-for-napowrimo-and-the-2015-a-to-z-challenge/</loc><lastmod>2015-04-02T13:45:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/10/03/be-brave-september-haiku-wrap-up/</loc><lastmod>2014-10-24T13:11:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/09/29/bellingham-bay-marathon-update/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bbm_laura-e1412007367926.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bbm_Laura</image:title><image:caption>Laura had a plan and pushed me to finish in under two hours</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bbm_group.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bbm_group</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bbm_byssc-e1411965968108.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bbm_byssc</image:title><image:caption>I ran happy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bbm_shimmery_shorts-e1412008213602.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bbm_shimmery_shorts</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/time_bbm-e1411965794436.jpg</image:loc><image:title>time_BBM</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bling_bbm.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bling_BBM</image:title><image:caption>Bellingham Bay Marathon, Finisher Medal and 4th place ribbon (in my age group)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bbm_post-race-beer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bbm_post race beer</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-29T17:23:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/09/19/finding-the-balance-in-running-and-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/fairhaven_runners_waterfron_15k.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fairhaven_runners_waterfron_15k</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/fairhaven15k_medal.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fairhaven15K_medal</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/2014-fairhaven-runners-waterfron-15k.png</image:loc><image:title>2014 Fairhaven Runners Waterfron 15K</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-24T13:08:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/09/01/august-reflections-writing-running-and-wake-surfing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/surfing-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>surfing 5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/first-place.jpg</image:loc><image:title>first place</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-19T20:35:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/08/15/go-mone-go-emma-re-post/</loc><lastmod>2014-08-15T21:57:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/08/14/michael-brown-ferguson-mo-and-wth-country-is-this/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/michael-brown.jpg</image:loc><image:title>michael-brown</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-14T20:31:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/08/13/doin-the-blog-hop/</loc><lastmod>2014-08-13T06:55:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/07/31/more-procrastination-poetry-a-few-forgotten-haiku-from-july/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/beach.jpg</image:loc><image:title>beach</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-31T18:33:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/07/30/procrastination-poetry-july-haiku-wrap-up/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/moonbeam_2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>moonbeam_2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/moonbeam_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>moonbeam_1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-31T22:13:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/07/22/post-race-update/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/nike_windhorse.png</image:loc><image:title>nike_windhorse</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/13_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>13_1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/windhorse_finish.jpg</image:loc><image:title>windhorse_finish</image:title><image:caption>All done. Really, seriously happy.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/windhorse_3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>windhorse_3</image:title><image:caption>Almost finished--happy, but determined.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/windhorse_2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>windhorse_2</image:title><image:caption>Mile 6.5. Still happy!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/windhorse_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>windhorse_1</image:title><image:caption>Mile 2.5</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-23T04:13:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/07/19/running-happy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/running_leavenworth.jpg</image:loc><image:title>running_leavenworth</image:title><image:caption>Happy Before Pic</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/oso_run-copyface.jpg</image:loc><image:title>oso_run copyface</image:title><image:caption>Happy? </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/chuckanutfootrace-pic-face.png</image:loc><image:title>chuckanutfootrace pic face</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-21T18:17:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/07/08/hardcover-haiku/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/two-haiku-books-e1404829102199.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>two haiku books</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/two-covers.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>two covers</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/second-haiku-book-3.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>second haiku book 3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/second-haiku-book-2.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>second haiku book 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/second-haiku-book-1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>second haiku book 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/back-of-book.jpg</image:loc><image:title>back of book</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/book_nans_hands.jpg</image:loc><image:title>book_nans_hands</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/final-cover-done1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>final cover done</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/stitched2.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>stitched2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/stiched1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>stiched</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-08T18:57:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/06/30/haiku-book/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/choku-rei.jpg</image:loc><image:title>choku rei</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-30T21:34:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/06/19/haikus-slow-return/</loc><lastmod>2014-06-20T16:36:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/06/13/haiku-memoir-a-reblog-from-a-friend/</loc><lastmod>2014-06-14T17:39:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/06/13/happy-birthday-haikus/</loc><lastmod>2014-06-28T12:41:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/2014/04/30/z-is-for-zebco/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/pam_grandpa-fish.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Pam and Grandpa Fishing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/brucie-fish.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Brucie and Fish</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/anna-fish-2.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>anna fish 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://pamelahelberg.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/anna-fish1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>anna fish1</image:title><image:caption>Anna, a few years ago 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